The Counselor Idealists are
abstract in thought and speech, cooperative in reaching their goals, and
directive and introverted in their interpersonal roles. Counselors focus on
human potentials, think in terms of ethical values, and come easily to
decisions. The small number of this type (little more than 2 percent) is
regrettable, since Counselors have an unusually strong desire to contribute to
the welfare of others and genuinely enjoy helping their companions. Although
Counsleors tend to be private, sensitive people, and are not generally visible
leaders, they nevertheless work quite intensely with those close to them,
quietly exerting their influence behind the scenes with their families, friends,
and colleagues. This type has great depth of personality; they are themselves
complicated, and can understand and deal with complex issues and people.

Counselors can be hard to get to know. They have an unusually rich inner life,
but they are reserved and tend not to share their reactions except with those
they trust. With their loved ones, certainly, Counselors are not reluctant to
express their feelings, their face lighting up with the positive emotions, but
darkening like a thunderhead with the negative. Indeed, because of their strong
ability to take into themselves the feelings of others, Counselors can be hurt
rather easily by those around them, which, perhaps, is one reason why they tend
to be private people, mutely withdrawing from human contact. At the same time,
friends who have known a Counselor for years may find sides emerging which come
as a surprise. Not that they are inconsistent; Counselors value their integrity
a great deal, but they have intricately woven, mysterious personalities which
sometimes puzzle even them.

Writing, counseling, public service and even politics are areas where INFJs
frequently find their niche.